Speaking up One's Mind

Thoughts are prisoners of minds, while feelings are incarcerated deep in hearts. And since i believe in democrasy and freedom of speech, i strongly believe that no -good or beneficial- thought or feeling is to be supressed no matter what! Problem is, this would be true if i were living in the IDEAL world! Let's face it! Sometimes you are loaded with tons of -good- thoughts and -noble- feelings but heck! It is either tradition-wise inappropriate for you to deliver them to the "other party" or that they are kinda gender-restricted... Am i even making sense here? Hmm let me demonstrate... Take the pre-marital tests for example which when taken might help a great deal in preventing inevitable medical disasters. When asked to take it, people involved might take it as an insult just because these things are not written down in our inherited manual of traditions! #@!* As for the second part, the gender discrimination one, i will not elaborate on that coz the minute i do i would be doomed for not observing the tradition-inappropriteness thingy! Enough said Peace!